Havoc's Opinion of Hawk.

Couldn't say it better myself, but we have to learn from our mistakes and stop being so tolerant and naives at cartain point.

Why?, because you can never teach an old dog a new trick.

Polly wrote:

you can never teach an old dog a new trick.

I've done it.

I thought my 4-year old Beagle how to fetch my slippers without slobbering on it.


Anyway, back to topic:

True, it is our diversity that keeps us intact, somehow.

It doesn't actually take a saint to be able to understand the source of Hawk's eccentricities.

One just needs to step aside and look at it from a different perspective -

Imagine having the job of being an air crash investigator and working around grieving family members in the middle of a smoking heap of aircraft rubble and mangled bodies.

You can't really do your job well if you think of all the pain and suffering around you, much less if some random relative nags you to find their missing son/daughter/mom/wife whatever (+ lengthy sob story).

Same goes with dealing with difficult people, say, the person who annoys us the most, be it Hawk, Pony, or some other animal-themed BFTA username (or whatnot).

We just have to be objective about things and ask questions like:

1. Why is he/she doing this?
2. What is there for me to gain if I lash out at him/her?
3. Would I be a better person if I fight/ignore this person?
4. What gain do I get by being the winner in our online argument?

We can ask ourselves these four questions the next time we run into a person that is difficult to deal with, not just in this forum, but in our everyday lives.


Be happy. Don't let emotional vampires get to you.

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A peaceful conscience sleeps amidst thunder.

I see im not alone in my thoughts where hawk, is concerned! and i agree with the comments made here. lets try to get along and remmber where not God and we cant see what someone as going thru,and gone thru ,or even what they think about themselfs as a person ie.( negative thought life toward themselfs and so on) that have shaped them and drove them to ack in waysthat drive poeple off and i hope that one day hawk gets a clue and stops trying fill that hole we all have in side of us that God has put there to hunger for a relatoinship with Him with earthly relatoinships because all of us are humane and flawed we all will at one time or another let each other down because we our human but there is one that will never let us down or fail us and that is God the Father and his son who will never leave us or forsake us, all we have to do is let him inside and its a desisoin that he has left to us he will not force us to let him in and the sooner hawk gets a clue that god loves her unconditoinly and lets him in ti fill that hole the better she will be! and and im not telling you that IF you let God into your life everything turns all peachy it dont ! but i will tell you that there have been many times in my walk with him that if i did,nt have his abiding presence in my life that i would have crumpled up like tin foil and blown away in the wind ! He was my source or strength to get thru then hard times and hawk to me is searching for love and exceptence in all the wroung places and if this turnes out to be my only post here and i get banned because of its religish content so be it. To my Father and is son Jesus Christ be all the Glory!!!

Well alrighty then.

borgdrone wrote:

I see im not alone in my thoughts where hawk, is concerned! and i agree with the comments made here. lets try to get along and remmber where not God and we cant see what someone as going thru,and gone thru ,or even what they think about themselfs as a person ie.( negative thought life toward themselfs and so on) that have shaped them and drove them to ack in waysthat drive poeple off and i hope that one day hawk gets a clue and stops trying fill that hole we all have in side of us that God has put there to hunger for a relatoinship with Him with earthly relatoinships because all of us are humane and flawed we all will at one time or another let each other down because we our human but there is one that will never let us down or fail us and that is God the Father and his son who will never leave us or forsake us, all we have to do is let him inside and its a desisoin that he has left to us he will not force us to let him in and the sooner hawk gets a clue that god loves her unconditoinly and lets him in ti fill that hole the better she will be! and and im not telling you that IF you let God into your life everything turns all peachy it dont ! but i will tell you that there have been many times in my walk with him that if i did,nt have his abiding presence in my life that i would have crumpled up like tin foil and blown away in the wind ! He was my source or strength to get thru then hard times and hawk to me is searching for love and exceptence in all the wroung places and if this turnes out to be my only post here and i get banned because of its religish content so be it. To my Father and is son Jesus Christ be all the Glory!!!

I don't mean to be rude, or ignore you post entirely, but I am going to ask you to cease going into religion. It is a very sensetive topic that resulted in many heated debates and they normally do not end well.

Again, not to be rude, but please do not go any further with the religion. That is all.

Killer red is the only one who seems to understand me.
*shakes her head*
*walks off the topic* this topic smells like trouble.